Premature Ejaculation

Premature Ejaculation is simply the instance of ejaculating TOO EARLY in sexual encounters.
What is considered “TOO EARLY” depends on the individual of course.

In any case, if you feel they you ejaculate too early to make sexual contact with others (or yourself, of course) as enjoyable as it can be, you do have reason to investigate the causes and solutions.

Generally, this is caused by extreme sensitivity to sexual contact. Quite simply, it means that the male becomes extremely sexually sensitive very quickly and able to climax and ejaculate more quickly and easily than the average male.

While this primarily affects adolescents and younger men in their 20’s, it can continue into later life and cause embarassment in sexual contact with others.

While there are many products which claim to desensitize the penis and delay climax and ejaculation, this is not the preferred method.

It is far more healthy and effective over the longer-term to learn methods and practices to mentally and physically control your arousal and level of pleasure.

Use of thick condoms in sexual contact can assist, but learning when to pause, breath and relax is equally important. Indeed, using these methods can also increase the level of pleasure and the volumn of ejaculation when climax is eventually experienced.
In essence, this is the practice of “edging” used in masturbation.
When the point of climax is almost imminent, the male halts all movement and sexual stimulation for thrity seconds to a minute until the urge to ejaculate has subsided adequately enough to allow you to continue.
This is then repeated again and again, with the time allowed to calm down increasing.

The best way to practice this method is through masturbation.

Masturbate until you feel the urge to ejaculate rising. Finding this point and stopping in time can be tricky and take time to perfect, but soon you should be able to recognise the indicators.
Let go of your dick and clear your mind (some men use negative or unattractive thoughts to assist in this).
Once the sensation of imminent climax has eased, begin masturbating again.
And again, when you feel that sensation approaching, stop.

Using this method, you’ll find that the periods of pausing will become longer as the penis becomes increasingly more sensitive to touch and stimulation.
The periods of masturbation will become shorter, with that “point of no return” arriving increasingly quickly.

Ultimately, your masturbation session will last far longer than normal, but when you do eventually allow yourself to finish, the climax will lilkely be incredibly intense, and the amount of ejaculate will likely be considerably larger than normal.

The next process is to include this into your sexual activities with others.
Over time, through practice during masturbation, you will learn how to control your own rythm and it will likely become your natural style during sex.

The use of masturbation sleeves can also help, with the STU from Fleshlight being one of the most popular products to use.
This product intends to create intense pleasure, encouraging you to become less sensitive to stimulation.